Another face of Love
After all that on Love and marriage, too much of discussion seems to happen....Now the question is Can love turn into hate?
And my answer is NO.
There are two angles to this problem.Lets take it 1 at a time.
You Love a Person and the person does not love you.
Frankly, speaking there is nothing you could do in such a situation.The feeling of affection & care and belongingness which you felt towards that person,he/she did not feel it towards you.Neither of you are at fault.This is how human beings are made.Everyone is different, no two people think the same or feel the same.Forget about some XYZ. Just take your brother or sister for example,do both of you love each other in the same way or for that matter is your love for your mom or dad is the same? One of you might love your mom more and the other one the dad and there could be various reasons for it.This doesnt mean you dont love them at all it means just that you dont love them as you love the other person.
So ,Its the same here also.If you love a XYZ and that XYZ doesnt reciprocate, there could be 1001 reasons for it.And that person might not be even able to tell it.And there is no point in you feeling hurt in such a circumstance.
The second type is a more tricky and a sentimental issue.
A person says he / she also loves but then says no
If such a thing happens, it is totally humane to get upset,angey,hurt and everything. Here also the only fault on your side is probably did not know whom to give your love to.Whatever is happening here can be taken on various way but the best way to handle it is to feel probably that person is not lucky enough to experience your love for them by staying with you, because this is the only way to keep urself away from getting hurt.And if you get hurt jus because someone had hurt you by ditching it could lead your life into getting gloomy, you might lose the confidence you have on Love and you might also get afraid of loving anybody else,becuase you are afraid of getting hurt.
And when such a thing happens can the love turn into hurt? NO.Love stays love,if it stays into hatred then it was never love it was jus a need. You felt you loved that person because you needed something from that person and when that person refuses to satisfy your need it becomes hate. And by calling the need as Love you were just fooling around.
So,friends be clear in what you want and what you give.Love a lot and be loved a lot!!!!
And my answer is NO.
There are two angles to this problem.Lets take it 1 at a time.
You Love a Person and the person does not love you.
Frankly, speaking there is nothing you could do in such a situation.The feeling of affection & care and belongingness which you felt towards that person,he/she did not feel it towards you.Neither of you are at fault.This is how human beings are made.Everyone is different, no two people think the same or feel the same.Forget about some XYZ. Just take your brother or sister for example,do both of you love each other in the same way or for that matter is your love for your mom or dad is the same? One of you might love your mom more and the other one the dad and there could be various reasons for it.This doesnt mean you dont love them at all it means just that you dont love them as you love the other person.
So ,Its the same here also.If you love a XYZ and that XYZ doesnt reciprocate, there could be 1001 reasons for it.And that person might not be even able to tell it.And there is no point in you feeling hurt in such a circumstance.
The second type is a more tricky and a sentimental issue.
A person says he / she also loves but then says no
If such a thing happens, it is totally humane to get upset,angey,hurt and everything. Here also the only fault on your side is probably did not know whom to give your love to.Whatever is happening here can be taken on various way but the best way to handle it is to feel probably that person is not lucky enough to experience your love for them by staying with you, because this is the only way to keep urself away from getting hurt.And if you get hurt jus because someone had hurt you by ditching it could lead your life into getting gloomy, you might lose the confidence you have on Love and you might also get afraid of loving anybody else,becuase you are afraid of getting hurt.
And when such a thing happens can the love turn into hurt? NO.Love stays love,if it stays into hatred then it was never love it was jus a need. You felt you loved that person because you needed something from that person and when that person refuses to satisfy your need it becomes hate. And by calling the need as Love you were just fooling around.
So,friends be clear in what you want and what you give.Love a lot and be loved a lot!!!!
posted by Nitya - The Rebel Queen at 7:18 AM
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